It’s every guy’s worst fear when it comes to dating: rejection from a woman. In fact, the fear of getting rejected is probably the most crippling fear that a man faces in his dating life.
But is there a way that you can avoid getting rejected by a woman? You might have heard, or even seen many men who seem to have a knack for attracting women while others are left ordering pizza on Friday night and playing cards with their buddies.
How can you become one of the select few men who don’t suffer rejection? Okay, here it is: the 100%, iron clad strategy that will ensure you NEVER get rejected by a woman again: take an oath of celibacy and never date other women as long as you live.
No, this is not a joke. If your objective is to avoid getting rejected by women, you automatically excuse yourself from beginning dating.
Of course, there always is the possibility that you will have scores of high-quality women flocking to you and you’ll be able to take your pick.
But then your alarm bells will ring and you’ll have to get up and risk rejection in order to meet the woman you really want. I would be doing you a great disservice if I were to tell you that there is a way that you can completely avoid being rejected by women.
No man, dead or alive has ever had a 100% success rate when it comes to approaching women…so don’t waste your time trying.
Instead, make a decision that you are going to go after what you want in spite of the fact that you might be rejected. When you get up the guts to do this, you WILL get an increased amount of positive responses as well.
How can I be so sure about this? Ever Heard of Babe Ruth? How about Ty Cobb? How about Thomas Edison? Can you guess what all of these ultra successful people had in common? All of them had to endure LOTs of failures before they finally achieved their stupendous success.
Babe Ruth, the legendary American baseball player, hit more home runs than any other baseball player of his time. But he also struck out MUCH more than the average ball player did.
The same is true with the great Ty Cobb, he stole more bases than any other ballplayer during his time. He also got called out for attempting to steal bases more than anyone else.
And finally, the legendary inventor and entrepreneur Thomas Edison failed more than 10,000 times in his attempts to create a working light bulb.
If these guys didn’t think themselves too good to endure failure to get what they wanted, why should you be any different?
I’ll tell you one thing for sure, if you are willing to face rejection in order to get what you really want, you’ll certainly appreciate it a lot more when you do get it.
Those who fear rejection and failure almost never get what they really want out of life, unless it happens to fall into their lap.
The problem is that when it does, they seldom ever keep it long enough to truly enjoy it. So What’s the Plan? You might be thinking that you didn’t really get any practical advice in this post.
But once you accept what you have just read, you’ll no longer be chasing the “magic solution” which will ensure you NEVER get rejected.
3 Steps To Conquer Your Fear Of Rejection.
1.Approach the toughest sets first (mixed sets, couples making out, couples dancing, big groups) and last 2 minutes in them no matter what.
2.Approach 20 women in each session (day or night game).
3.Break down your sessions AFTER each session (day or night game).
•Failing Forward by John Maxwell •Go For No by Richard Fenton •10X Rule by Grant Cardone
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